“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”
“To call woman the weaker sex is a libel; it is man’s injustice to woman. If by strength is meant brute strength, then, indeed, is woman less brute than man. If by strength is meant moral power, then woman is immeasurably man’s superior. Has she not greater intuition, is she not more self-sacrificing, has she not greater powers of endurance, has she not greater courage? Without her, man could not be. If nonviolence is the law of our being, the future is with woman. Who can make a more effective appeal to the heart than woman?”
“I want to try with someone who loves me enough to try with me. I want to grow old looking at the same face every morning. I want to grow old looking at the same face every night at the dinner table. I want to be one of those old couples you see still holding hands and laughing after fifty years of marriage. That’s what I want. I want to be someone’s forever.”
“There is poetry written along your cheekbones and songs being sung through your veins. if you open your eyes, you can see that there is a sunrise-promise rising along our horizon, the whispering of something dangerously beautiful.”
because men shouldn’t be treated like garbage just because they don’t adhere to the stereotypical image of a strong male. I served food to a couple at work last night, and the woman told her boyfriend that she “couldn’t stand him” just because he asked her to pay for her own meal. Both men and women are being affected negatively by these stereotypes and it frustrates me to no end.